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Embracing life's challenges and adversities is an inevitable part of personal growth and shaping our identities.

We each experience life uniquely, encountering varying circumstances and obstacles along the way. While many individuals manage to overcome childhood traumas, it's crucial to acknowledge that not everyone can do so.

The consequences can be catastrophic for the individual and even have a ripple effect on others. Elizabeth Baines delves into this importance of overcoming hardships in her short story "Kiss," where she portrays three diverse characters from different backgrounds and upbringings, illustrating how some triumph over their traumas while others do not, ultimately impacting them all negatively.

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The young woman can be described to be someone who overcame her tragic past. While the short story doesn’t say directly whether she was sexually abused by her father or not it is highly implied in this part:

“Father looking up at her mother and smiling, as if he had eyes for no other, as if the night before, when the others were sleeping, he hadn't crept into the girl's room, hadn't hissed in her face afterwards, It's just between you and me.”

The father's hissing remark, implying that the choice lies solely between two options, exposes his abusive use of paternal authority.

This painful encounter becomes the catalyst for additional hardships the woman endures, including anorexia and a strained relationship with her mother, who treats her differently.

However, the narrative unveils her triumph over these difficulties when she meets her lover, the man with dreadlocks, and they are drawn to each other, recognizing the shared courage of survival within one another.

Their mutual attraction serves as a testament to her resilience and the strength she found in overcoming past adversities.

The young man with dreadlocks encountered numerous hardships, primarily revolving around racial abuse, enduring bullying at school and facing unjust arrests by the police.

Raised by a single mother without the presence of a father figure, he grappled with the challenges posed by his skin color, making his upbringing far from easy.

However, he found strength in adversity and tackled these obstacles by engaging in charity work and assisting fellow young individuals who experienced similar issues.